Hi friends,

Meaning of Pain

Inshaan apne aap ko ku nhi change krta apne place apne aas-paas k atmosphere ko ku change krta hai

aakhir ku nhi manta  ki wo jo kr rha wo usi ke Dil ko kya accha lagega?

pehle log milte hai phir attraction hota hai, then kuch time baad ek dure ki aadat ban jate hai,or phir ek alag duniya m rehne lagte hai phir ek time esa aata h ki ab hum sath kese reh sakte ,yaha se suruaat hoti hai rishto ,maanytao ki seema Ghar parivar ,maa baap, ab yaha dekhne ko milta hai ki humare rishte itne acche the or mazbut the , or yhi pata chalta hai ki dono inshano mai jo attraction, pyar or bhavnaye thi kya wo sach thi ya bina kisi buniyad k buni gayi thi , kya dono ne ye socha the ki aage ek kisi ese mod pr koi ek unhe chodega ? ya koi itna ignore krega ki dusre k liye jina muskil ho jaye ya phir jiye bhi to roz uski yado m sab kuch bhul kr,nhiyhi nhi socha gaya hota hai,

Aakhir ku ,ku hota hai esa ku nhi socha jata kya hr relation s pehle or relation suru krne s pehle yhi sochte hai ki dekha jayega ki kaha tak jata hai ye rishta, agar esa hai to ku , kya ye galat nhi hai, aakhir ku hum jhuth bol kr kisi ke life mai entry krte hai ku kisi ke emotions se khelte hai kiss bhagwan ne diya hai ye haq unhe ki jao or kisi ko apni chahat apne pyar mai duba do or jab samne wale ko us pyar ki us aawaj ki aadat pad jaye to us-s dur ho jao use ignore kro , mere khayal se ye kisi kisi ka nature bhi ho sakta hai, or koi esa bhi ho sakta hai jiski majburi rhi ho lekin esi mazburi jis-s pyar kiya hai or jo tumhara hai us-s kahi bhi ja sakti hai us-s chord dena musibat ka hal nhi hai.

or agar use lagta hai ki yhi sahi hai to mai kehta hu ki ye galat hai an-nyay hai ye enshaniyat ke sath, sab ko ek jesa samjhna sabhi ko ek nazar se dekhna ye sahi nhi hota or esi nadaniya krte hue wo bhi janta hai ki mai galat hu phir bhi wo jhukta nhi wo ye bhi janta hai ki maine samne wale ka jo humara hai jise maine kuch din pehle apne aagosh mai rakha tha ,apna pyar tha , jise khud apni life samjhta sab kuch sopa tha vishwas , tha aaj usi ko akela chod diya hai , or  wo ye bhi janta hai ki maine galat kiya hai phir bhi kesi laparwahi ke sath chord deta hai , kya mai keh sakta hu ki usme dil nhi hai, haa sayad ye sahi nhi hoga dil to hai ,pyar bhi hai bas samaj ka dar hai ya use uske kisi bure experience ne en sab - pyar, mohabbat, apnapan ese sabdo ko use krne or enko apne jeewan mai lane s mana kr diya hota hai, but mujhe lagta hai en sab chejo ko se uper uska ahankaar(proud) hai jo use esa krne nhi deta or use bolta bhi hai ki ye sab bekar ke naam hai,

Or  wo partner es baat ko maan leta hai kuki wo maanna chahta bhi hota hai atlst wo apne pyar, apni mohabbat ,apne partner ko chord deta hai , phir bhi kahi na kahi uska man lag nhi rehta hai kuki frinds emotions etne nazuk nhi hote ki unhe itni aasani se tod diya jaye,  mere khayal se bahut muskil hi hoga. or jo sochta hai ki haa esa krna aasan hai sab paresaniyo ki jad aas-pass ki cheje ya yaade hai to wo ense dur jana suru krne lagta hai sehar chord dena, partner ko bhulana uske gift return krna, un places pe na jana jaha kabhi milte the to ese bahut si kosise ki jati hai but sayad kabhi aap ko ese person mile yaa aapki apni life mai ese log ho to unse puchna ki kya ye sab krna sahi hai ya, ye sahi rashta hai ya phir wo samaj ,maa pita ko khus krne ke liye kisi ko ese chord sakte hai yaa koi tisra(3rd) rasta bhi nikala  ja  sakta hai,

mere khayal se ye tisra rasta humesa positive hi hota hai or esme ,es raste mai kisi ko dukh nhi pahuchta, 3^rd way is always right.

to aakhir log itna negative soch kr kisi ek ko khus krne ya apne fayde ka kese soch lete hai us- apne ko chordkr jis-s chand lamhe pehle itna pyar diya or paya tha ,unse pucha jaye ki kya aap pehle khus nhi the , kya aap jab akele hote to ap ke partener ne aap ka sath nhi nibhaya ? nibhaya na to aaj phir uske sath esa kyo?

waise frinds meri apni life mai bhi kuch esa hi 30th july ko hua tha then time guzarta rha ek dusre ko samhalne mai, relation ko bachane mai kisi ne jyada kosis ki kisi ne kam ya sayad ki hi nhi or kal 24 september ko return gift ka time a gaya .

to mai puchna chahunga ki agr apne ghar, apne liye or us samaj k liye hi sochna hota hai to enshan pyar krta hi ku hai or agr en-sab se uper bhi koi problem relation ko man-ne se enkar krti hai to wo sabse accha tisre raste ke bare mai ku nhi sochta enshan aakhir es din ke liye, yahi sab dekhne ke liye hi enshan pyar krta hai.

agr esa hai to aage ki genration kisi pe beleive nhi kr payegi. to jo koi bhi jis-kisi se pyar krta hai wo dil se kre or ghar parivar ke liye tisra rasta khoz kr chale waise ek baat clear kr du mujhe ye ghar parivar ki baat matr ek bahana lagti hai kuki meri nazer mai aaj present time mai hr koi maa-baap apne baccho ki pasand or khusi chahte hai wo pehle bhi baccho ki pasand se hi mele se khilone laya krte the aaj bhi baccho ki khusi se hi unka dil khus rehta agr unke bacche ese galat kaam na kre kisi k dil s na khele to kuki khilone or dil mai bahut anter hota hai , sayad maa baap maan bhi jate agr unse kaha jata to but log sochte hai tisre raste ki jarurat hi kya hai ab hum decision lene layak hai or unke esi ghamand mai logo ki life barbad ho jati hai, or wo apna maan pata, address badal te reh jate hai or khus rehkr sochte hai chalo hum jeet gaye

so aap mai s koi esa ho to apni galti sudharne ki kosis krna yahi mera kehna hai or us tisre raste ki khoz krna jo humesa sahi hota humesa sahi.

Love U………