Women's Want Happiness and Security

I feel save in my boyfriends arms, I feel safe and secure whenever he's around. He makes me feel save by respecting me 100% and he values me. He wouldn’t let anyone hurt me. My guy is one of those "unbelievable trustworthy" men. You just trust everything he says and does. So you definitely feel safe with him because if he says, "You're safe with me" - you are. I feel save when my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me every day and shows it and that lets me know he loves me too much to let anything happen  to me. I feel safe whenever my boyfriend tells me that I am in his arms right now and how he stands like a baby last night because he held me so tightly and never let go. I feel safe whenever he tells me: "you will always be safe with me no matter what. I feel so secure with my boyfriend. He takes care of me and holds me tight. He reassures me that I'll be okay as long as I'm with him I have nothing to worry about. I feel safe with my boyfriend because I am the most important person to him and he will do anything he can to protect me and make me happy. I've I didn't feel comfortable coming to him during rough times then I couldn't be with him. I feel protected when I'm with him; even just being in his presence makes me more at ease. He's attentive, kind and listens. I trust him and he makes me happy. I love him so much and I would do anything for him. I have always had a problem with being close to someone entirely and recently this has started causing a problem. I don't mean to do it, I don't ever mean to make him feel as though he doesn't matter but I do. I don't want my boyfriend to feel like this because he is the most amazing person and he makes me so happy. A lot of the problems I have with being close to someone I think stems from a lot of bad relationships where I've not had someone who is interested in wanting to be around me all the time and not having someone who has truly loved me. Now I have someone who loves me completely and adores me I want to keep him. My boyfriend couldn't do enough for me, he always picks me up from work, walks me home, he takes me out and most importantly he wants to spend as much time with me as he can. My boyfriend supports me in every way possible, but he really does feel like I'm pushing him away from me, sometimes without realizing it I act quite distant, or I just won't cuddle up to him like I usually do. I don't know what makes me do this, it's like I get to a point and he gets to know so much I almost don't want him to get to know anymore for fear of being hurt. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him because of my insecurities and fears. So could someone please advise me on how to me more in touch with my emotions and how to make him feel more secure. Other than this we have an amazing relationship... I just don't want my stupidity to ruin things.

HOW MUCH YOU MEAN TO ME

                                

You mean everything to me. You have no clue. The way i am in your arms is a moment that i think back on when I get home and the days after until i can be with you again. I can't ever forget you even when you leave me. Even if you moved miles away from here and never called or anything anymore. I can't forget you I will never be able to. I know this is love, no doubt in the back of my mind. I’m not scared to kiss you in front of my anyone. I’m not scared to be with you in public. I’m not scared to announce that your my life. I’m not scared of people knowing I am in love. I want to be with you the rest of my life and when I go to heaven I want to be with you.  But if you ever stop loving me, ever feel I'm not enough for you, tell me..I can't live a lie.  I will be upset..but I don't want you to be unhappy. Anything for you.  I am scared of losing you, everything I have. Sometimes I think, is this a dream? A perfect dream? Is this really happening..to ME? and I realize..yes it is.  I have never had anything like this before.  I have never been treated like this. I have never had a guy call me baby, or tell me they love me like you, or even look at me like you. You are just so different than anyone else. I thought my world was going to end when he/she broke up with me..but when I found you...everything got better. My heart mended. My love re-formed. My smile returned. I don't cry anymore...over the smallest things...you made me stronger. you complete me. You have made me a happier person.  Happier than I have ever been. Made me live with no regrets. Made my life the best and I love you for that.  I love everything about you. I love you. That will never change. One day you may stop loving me, but I will always love you whether you feel the same way towards me or not. My love for you will never end and if when I die we were still together, I want you to move on, I want you to be happy, I want you to continue life without me and same for me. BUT, I won't be able to move on, I won't move on, I cant. There's no one else for me  and you will always be the only one for me in my mind and in my heart. I hope you get the idea that you mean a lot to me. More than anything in this world. You are my sun, my sky, my world, my reason of smile, my everything.

I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH

WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT… Financial Background or Love?

WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT… MONEY OR LOVE?

Love or money both are important in life. But, In present era without money we can't even think to have a relation with someone specially if you are a male.,...female can make it because they mostly don't spend money at all. Money creates relationship.  Without money your relation will not last long. People might think that if your love is true then money doesn't matter. Practically speaking it matters that you have enough money to spend on your partner and yourself. She/he will be more attracted towards you if you have smart dressing sense or expensive accessories. yes money is important. I agree you don't need money to be loved. But you need money to keep your love life in existence....falling in love with a poor guy is easy but spending a happy life with him is not possible...  Money is , what is money ? You know , it is most powerful nuclear in the world that is most important in relationship.....it make nuclear bomb..it also make relationship.  Money provides basic necessities like food, shelter, clothing, etc. I am not talking about luxuries, but certain basics are required. Many you be truly madly deeply in love, but trust me it's easy to say but, it's really difficult to go below the standard you maintain, it's easy to say 'yes I can', try it for a week 99.9% people will give up. Hence, money is important in a relationship.  Money has great value now a day's love is money I don't believe in true love without money. Money is important.. we can buy love.. but we can't buy food, cloths & house by love.. for that money is important..love comes second after money..  When we love someone we need to make them happy. Through money only we can make them happy by buying whatever they like. Money is not all. But money is a integral part in making the loved one happy. Money is not everything, but it's not less than anything too.  Practically speaking money or say financial stability /independence proves making an individual strong and confident. One who's sound in money or is independent never feels frustrated or feels down from other people. Better thoughts could only come when basic needs are already fulfilled, no complexes, no stress. Money plays an important role to give relations a stability.  When poverty knocks the door love jumps out of the window, It's the money which binds the couples together, Have you ever seen a girl marrying her poor lover, leaving an alternate option to marry a rich guy. You might find some cases but love disappear after few days.  Yes, no money, no life. To make your relation close and close, you need money and that makes your honey happy. Otherwise you will have only a Relation without ship and you will see your ship sinking inside the sea soon. The time has completely changed and without money nothing starts. "MONEY" is must in today's relationships. It's the bank balance which speaks more than words.  if u don’t have money, u wont even think of falling in love, money is sixth sense without which u cannot make use of other  five.   Love will remain there but to fulfill our needs and desires money plays a very important role. Because nobody has limited desires, so to get their dream money is a primary thing to success of love.  To make a relationship or for love money is not important but to drive this relationship successfully money is important. It depends on relationship or rather on both the partners. If they are enough mature and can understand each other and if they can live with each other in any type of condition in life so that fine - Money is not important. But today our society is looking at status and money. Society does not understand or see your love. And I also want to mention here that in today's life if you don't have status or enough money or your good career it's hard to make your love success in society.

I Understand Diffrance Between Friendship or Love After Most Painful Day-10 November

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

Most Painful Day-10 November

Just when I’ve recovered from the anger, I find out on YouTube that my closefriend  is now engaged .

Finding out my ex was engaged again was alarmingly painful. Old feelings started to resurface; wounds that I thought were healed were suddenly fresh and red hot. She was mine. She was going to marry me. We were supposed to spend our lives together. I got down on one knee and proposed to Her on that rainy October day. And suddenly, She is marrying someone else.

Love is a natural feeling, and we may fall in love in April 28. Love is the most exquisite gift of God. he has sent a boon from Heaven so we could enjoy the charm of love the way we want to enjoy it. It is like caring for somebody else unconditionally.
Love wants love as love's reward, but it never asks for it. A lover is happy in the happiness of his/her beloved. His/her life revolves around her/his beloved. The only beauty and charm in his/her life is his/her beloved. He/she does many things for her/him and is satisfied in his/her satisfaction.
On the other hand, friendship is about developing a close acquaintances with somebody else. We may meet a number of people daily, but we make friends very rarely. Not all of them are our friends.
A friend is a person who knows what we want. A friend knows us the way we know us. A friend is a person who does a lot for us. A friend in need is a friend indeed. A true friend is a relaxation for one's whole life.
Friendship can be changed into love, but love can never be changed into friendship. Your friend can be your lover at some later stage, but your lover can both be your friend and your lover at the same time. A lover is a lover and a friend is a friend. Friendship has to be made, and love finds its path itself.
In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster - but in front of the person you like, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, you can't say everything. But in front of the person you like, you can show your feelings.
The person you love comes into your mind every two minutes.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love, but you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.
In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy, but in front of the person you like, you can show yourself.
There is an important difference between love and friendship. While love delights in extremes and opposites, friendship demands equality.

A true friend is one who is with you when you are happy and sad, but false friends are those who shares your happiness but leave you alone in difficulty. Life without friends is like crossing river without a boat. A lover is one who shares and sacrifices everything for his beloved. A lover is a person who stays with his or her loved one throughout life and always keeps him/her happy.

MEANING OF REAL LOVE

Some people think love is just talking kind, warm and cute words to each other, love is just telling “I love you”, is just being together and having fun. But reality is a bit different and love is hard. So what the true love meant to be? It’s caring of someone you love, being with your partner when your partner needs your help, doing everything to protect and look after your partner.  Love Start with your eyes and end up at your heart... when u look someone and by looking your partner first time u can feel something in your mind and in your heart... u even cant stop that feelings and u cant hold self and without u know u fall in love with your partner...
  Real love means... " Only give " when u love someone u never think to get anything from him/her always u want to give your partner much love... never accpet anything from your partner
  Real love means... when u see him/her happy u got smile on your face... and when u see your partner sad u feel sad... your partner problem become your problem. u always think to and wish that your partner get all happiness of this world and never get problem... The true love is something more then falling in love. Your partner is at the first place trust, because without your partner every relationship is fated and can’t survive a long time. When you have trust in your partner you are free. That must be shared because when the one person in the relationship believes in the other, but the other don’t do this, this leads to problems and probably to broke up. The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner, you must be his friend. Your partner must be the man from who you can ask for advice and who you can say your secrets, because your partner will not say to no one else this things, your partner wouldn't be betrayed you. It is a true love when you can talk about everything with the person who you are in love with. Exactly the talking is the most important thing for the true love, because when the partners talk, they can find a decision to every problem, which they have. One big part of the couples breaking up, because they can’t or don’t want to talk. When the love is a true love, your partner can survive everything. Every problem is a test for the feelings and strength of one relationship. The true love is help. When you really love someone you are ready to help him right away and to do everything for him. The true love is care, because when you are in love with someone you make everything that your partner can feel fine and loved. When the love is a true love this fact automatically eliminates the egoism, because now you are not alone and you must think about the wishes, which have the person with who you are. When you love someone you want to make him happy. The true love means support too. The feeling when you know that by you stands someone who loves you and every time will support you, is really great. One love is true when the two in the relationship are frank and honest. When you and your partner have the same thinking and the same conception for the life, you can be together a very long time. The true love is when two people want to spend their time together in loving each other and when their love survives all of the problems, which they meet during their life together. If the people are able to keep their love the same as it was in the beginning through out the years, you can say that this is true love. Finding the true love of your life is really hard and you may need more than one lifetime to make that happen, but in the end it will be worth it….  Real love means letting go. Real love means letting someone be who they are and accepting them for who they are. It is in no way about control. You’ve heard the saying: If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it never was....      No relationship will run smoothly without regular attention, so ask yourself if you are willing to invest the time and effort into this relationship. Often, after the initial blush of romance has faded, couples switch off from one another, but the more you invest in each other, the more you grow to care. Find things you enjoy doing together and commit to spending the time to do them, even when you’re busy or stressed.  Every relationship changes and goes through good and bad periods, but overall a healthy relationship should continue to be good for you. It should bring the best out in you and should not only make you happier, but also make you a better person: kinder, more emphatic, and more generous…..

Love life is not as simple as it seems because 2 unknown person are going to spend some moments with each other. There is a need of great understanding, there is a need of adjustment, there is a need of patience, there is a need of cooperation, there is a need of support from each other in love life. So love life is full of challenges. It is not a fun to maintain the true love. 

If we not take care of some important points then it is possible that our search will not come to end to get a real and true love life….. This is very important thing which every one must understand that without trust it is not possible to maintain a long lasting relation. Don't doubt on partner, don't create any misunderstanding, don't hide any important thing……….

REAL FEELING WHEN YOUR PARTNER WANTS TO LEAVE YOU BUT…….

When my partner really wants to leave me my partner told me so many times that he don’t want to continue … and I would not call my partner again and again…. But it was just a small thing when I was really saying I wanted to help. My partner came back with a text about how I couldn't possibly understand and how dare I tell my partner what to do. I tried to talk to my partner  on the phone, but my partner just shouted to leave him alone and hung up on me. What can I do now?

I told my partner  to remember that I still believed in my partner and felt a lot of love for you, but my partner answered right away with a huge outburst, blaming me for everything…

At first my partner said he was so sorry and that he was the one with the problem, not me. I really believed my partner  and talked about a lot of things my partner  could do to get better. But my partner only answer was to go through all the problems my partner said I had caused….     My partner has all the qualities that i want in my life partner. My partner is good looking, smart, intelligent. When my partner told me that he likes me he loves me I felt good as it always feels nice to be liked by someone whom you like.
But later when my partner started calling me n talking to me on a regular basis..i felt that my partner  is a little flirtatious.May be my partner is very good with his words..n expressive. n i m too shy.I am not very expressive of my feelings.i don't  like flirting . I seek commitment.  Later I released that i feel for my partner. I got scared that if i get too much involved with my partner..it would be difficult for me to part with him later as i wasn't sure whether he loves me or is just flirting with me. I was totally confused as sometimes use to feel that my partner is serious for me.. then use to feel that my partner might b just flirting but when he really said that he didn't see his future with me it really hurts hurts like a hell.. Want him back in my life. Don't know what to do. I love him..n this seem to b the biggest problem!! I know we don't have a future together but the biggest thing that is hurting me most is that i he was not want to continue his future with me n that's y he is not even thinking of me..not missing me..that's y is not contacting me. My love for him is so deep.I have stopped enjoying my life. Don’t feel like laughing n having a good time..even when among the friends. All day i keep thinking about him.Desperate to hear from him...will he never come back? I truly love him… love my partner so much….  I love my partner unconditionally…   one day he will definitely understands me and spend his whole life with me. I will always pray to god…. Please u have to understand me and u have to spend your life with med.. I will effeminately give you all happiness that you want.. I will try to fulfill all your dreams that you see…    just be with me forever as my soul-mate….

Love is everything

Hi friends,

today I feel alone and I think about my Sweet love from early morning then I am here again.

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“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your love life.” 

Love Is Pain

I need to begin by saying I'm almost dying, I miss you so much. You know it´s sunny and warm here, but my heart only has light when it comes to my memory the light in your eyes and the sparkle in your smile.
When I think of the hours and hours of flying that separated us, I get the feeling I will suffer hours and hours of insomnia. I need you so badly by my side, I need so badly to feel your caring touch and the sensuality of your kisses, I need so badly to feel your presence, that in some moments, I think that your absence will slowly bring me to some illness.
I can't wait until this tormenting is over, I can't wait until I have you back, really close to me, hugging me, receiving my care, kisses and hugs. 
Without you by my side my days are real sad and my nights are terrible. Hours can go by, and I´m still trying to sleep so time will go by faster, so the moment when we meet again will be sooner. I feel better when I dream about you, and that way, I always dream about you. I dream about you, even when I´m awake and I always ask god to make the universe clock faster so you can be quickly by my side.
My love, even far away, even in another hemisphere, don´t ever lose the certainty that I love you and my biggest desire is your brief return.